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History's super confused ideas about women's sex lives

What can I say, girls will be girls...

History's super confused ideas about women's sex lives
Eugene de Blaas, The Flirtation (1905). Public domain via Wikipedia Commons.

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It's a mental model you need to flip to understand much of history until the modern era. Far from the prudish and uninformed ingΓ©nue of Jane Austen novels, farther still from the disinterested and desexed ideal Victorian housewife, in many of our ancestors' imagination, it was women who were the more sex-crazed gender.

From the ancient Greeks and for centuries thereafter, women were thought to be ruled by a compulsive libido, too weak to control their primal urge to make babies. Forget locker rooms; kitchens and washhouses were where moral danger lay. Girls will be girls, you know?

Far from an excuse for women to let their freak flag fly, the belief was one more reason to control their movements, behaviours, or dress. Men, superior creatures that they were, experienced desire too but could tame their animal instincts to be moral and productive citizen. It was their great burden too to keep our hunger in check – through restrictive marriages and endless pregnancies.

History is full of let's call them interesting ideas about women's sexuality. The ancient Greeks believed in the "wandering womb" – the idea that a woman's womb traveled through her body and made her ill. (I can't shake the mental image of a cartoon uterus on foot, Γ  la Schoolhouse Rock. "I'm just a womb, yes I'm only a womb..." 🎢) Medieval Europeans, more generously, believed that a woman's orgasm was necessary for conception. The Victorians, who never disappoint when it comes to sex and gender, believed masturbation would drive one to madness. The illustrations are fun.

This week's episode is a bit of candy. I had a blast talking to history podcasting royalty, Dr Kate Lister, host of Betwixt the Sheets, about the history of women's pleasure, which is the topic of her new book, Flick.

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